When is enough..enough

How many times until you realize that its not going to work. How many tears shed, chairs thrown, yelling until your hoarse and shear embarrassment until u realize that its over and that certain things are better left alone. When you've given all u got and then someones given u an okay half ass' d effort its a real insult because I know and its seems that I'm not alone when I say I've been with someone who doesn't deserve me at all. He try s but the effort he puts is almost non-existent. I want so much more when it comes to relationships and I don't think certain people have the things that are needed to sustain certain marriages. Marriage is definitely for the grown and sexy not the ugly and insecure..LOL.. Take a deep breath and move forward and stop looking back is what I need to do . I am a strong woman. I just want to be adored and showered with love/attention/etc....Some men get it and others get left and go to mess up someones life. For all the underachievers in relationships this middle finger is solely for you!!!