If anyone would have asked me this time last year if I'd still be married today my answer would have been a heck no for sure. Well maybe a h#ll no. We had divorce papers notaried and our own thought out custody arrangement, so when I say we were thru we both believed it at the time..We tried everything we could first it was the fighting and yelling then we moved onto the silence then couseling then more silence. I think we both reached a point when re relized that WE couldnt do it by ourselves and if our marriage was ever gonna be somethng worth having then it could only be done by God because the two of us were destoying one another slowly but surely. We got used to tearing each other down in subtle ways. Now we are learning to accept compliments and encouragement from one another. A friend told me to pray for god to bring other Christian married couples into our lives and thats exactly whats happening. We pray at least twice a day together and the difference is crystal clear. I feel covered by Gods grace and I wouldnt change that for anything. We still disagree and are far from perfect but we do things out of a love for God. Theres a spiritual maturity taking place and I think I'm starting to like trusting and believing in my husband. He's not perfect but he's mine and God is continuing to do a mighty work in the both of us. All that is to say be encouraged married folk God makes a way when u cant see it as being even possible. Just remember to tell others of the good news. Until next time be encouraged.
