My family**

Why does it seem like nobody cares anymore. I'm from a huge family and at one time we were very close and now its a mess. I feel like it's just me and my cousin that seems to give a dame. If my grand were only here..none of this bulls#% would be taking place. We were raised to believe that when things got rough u always had your family but it's not the same. We used to have huge bar-b ques and birthday party out the ass. Now if u call a family meeting ( i have 13 aunts and uncles and God only knows how many cousins) why the hell are there only 4 people attending the meeting. I'm not going to let the attitudes of my family change my feelings of what our family should be. It's important to me and I refuse to let slackin' ass family members change my views on OUR family..

Family

The way I was raised family took care of family reguardless.But itseemstheolder I get the more my family member dont seem to care about one another. i mean Dame ifya brother is sick nurse him back (PERIOD)

When is enough..enough

How many times until you realize that its not going to work. How many tears shed, chairs thrown, yelling until your hoarse and shear embarrassment until u realize that its over and that certain things are better left alone. When you've given all u got and then someones given u an okay half ass' d effort its a real insult because I know and its seems that I'm not alone when I say I've been with someone who doesn't deserve me at all. He try s but the effort he puts is almost non-existent. I want so much more when it comes to relationships and I don't think certain people have the things that are needed to sustain certain marriages. Marriage is definitely for the grown and sexy not the ugly and insecure..LOL.. Take a deep breath and move forward and stop looking back is what I need to do . I am a strong woman. I just want to be adored and showered with love/attention/etc....Some men get it and others get left and go to mess up someones life. For all the underachievers in relationships this middle finger is solely for you!!!